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Our story starts the same as any classic love story—on Hinge (for members of older generations reading this, that’s a dating app). Trang found Alex’s response about the fashion fad we all fell victim to (answer: Lance Armstrong bracelets) too funny to pass up and made the questionable decision to throw him a like (or whatever you do on Hinge, it’s been a long time). We had our first date on October 12, 2018, at Bar Vacilando in Capitol Hill, where we drank far too much Malbec.  

We took our first trip together just a few months later when Trang asked him to tag along on a work trip to NYC and there have been many others trips since. Walla Walla is an especially special destination since it was where Alex first said “I love you” after many wine tastings throughout the day (seeing a theme?).  

In October 2020 we officially moved in together, following Trang’s extended stint at Alex’s Belltown apartment during the pandemic (where she had a lovely couch office) nested into our Ballard townhouse.   

After over 5 years together and countless of you asking Alex when he was going to “lock Trang down,” on May 9, 2024, Alex proposed to Trang in Paris in front of the Eiffel Tower with her parents as the official photographers. Trang was shocked thanks to the exceptional deception of Best Man/Ring Bear (not a misspelling) Stephen Aiken, who had denied the ring was even in possession. Which is also why she was wearing a pair of New Balances at the time of the proposal, even though Alex had tried to convince her to get dressed up ahead of dinner. We spent the rest of our European trip celebrating through Paris and Portugal. 

 And that brings our journey to September 20, 2025 – Wedding Day! Can’t wait to see you in Walla Walla!

In the Heart of

Walla Walla

Step into the enchanting beauty of Washington wine country. Set against a backdrop of rolling vineyards and golden wheat fields, your celebration unfolds in the heart of Walla Walla, where rustic charm meets refined elegance.

Nestled in the southeastern corner of Washington, Walla Walla is a destination rich in history, renowned for its world-class wineries, and beloved for its small-town warmth. With over 120 wineries, scenic country roads, and a vibrant downtown filled with boutique shops, farm-to-table dining, and local art galleries, this hidden gem offers a perfect blend of sophistication and laid-back charm. Whether you're savoring award-winning wines, exploring picturesque landscapes, or indulging in the region’s rich culinary scene, Walla Walla welcomes you with open arms and unforgettable experiences.

4:00pm - Exchange vows on the great lawn surrounded by Abeja’s vineyards.

4:30pm - Cocktail hour on the patio next to the gardens.

6:00pm - Reception to follow with drinks, food, and dancing to celebrate this new chapter.

  • Short/midi dresses, dressy skirt & top, pantsuits for women. Collared shirt for men (sport coat optional, but welcome). No shorts, but jeans are fine.

Kick-off the weekend with us at one of our favorite places! Great wine from Alton and delicious food from Hattaway’s on Alder.

  • Attire: Formal - For women, a long dress, formal cocktail dress, or pantsuit. Suit and tie for men.

Registry

Your presence is the greatest gift of all. However, for those who wish to honor us with a token of love, you can find our registry here.

Travel & Stay

Navigate the journey to Walla Walla with ease. Find travel tips, accommodation suggestions, and local recommendations here.

FAQs

Got questions? We've got answers! Check out our frequently asked questions below, or feel free to reach out to us directly.

  • We’d love to see our friends and family get dressed up to celebrate with us! The dress code for the welcome party is festive cocktail, meaning dresses for women, and a nice shirt with a collar for men (sport coat optional, but welcome). No shorts, but jeans are fine. The dress code for the wedding is formal attire, meaning women should wear midi/floor length dresses or formal pantsuit/jumpsuits and men should (per Alex) wear a damn suit and tie. The ceremony will be outside, while the reception will be [XX]. The weather does cool down towards the end of the night in September, so please bring additional layers as necessary.

  • Please RSVP no later than XX using the QR code on your save the date or by clicking the RSVP tab in the menu above. If you do not RSVP in time, we will assume you are unable to attend.

  • Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate guests who were formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding.

  • We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only event. Hoping you can use this as a weekend getaway.

  • Yes! Shuttles will be available to take guests to and from the wedding venue (10-minute trip). There is no overnight parking at Abeja Winery, so we encourage everyone to use the provided transportation or arrange an Uber/Lfyt, although those are typically limited in the area. For transportation to the wedding venue, please meet at [insert location] at [time].

  • Please arrive by 3:30pm to grab a welcome drink and find your seat! The ceremony will begin at 4:00pm.